ANNA WALDHERR A Voice Reclaimed, Surviving Child Abuse. But I was a writer long before I ever became a lawyer. Before that, I was for years a victim of child molestation. And that really is my point. We are, all of us, more than our labels, more than our circumstances, more than the pain we may have endured.

I lived with and was married to a female malignant narcissist for 12 years who has BPD and HPD. I endured significant trauma, gas lighting, degrading comments and was left feeling worthless. My daily struggle to get them the hell away from her claws. Have questions, comments, advice? Ask, tell, share. I am here to recover. A law that will protect victims of narcissistic sociopathic abuse.

Yesterday it was like being unreal.

Home, but not at home. Depression has definitely got its claws in me the last few days. I got home from work last night and pretty much went straight to bed.