A bit of this and that. In December 2010, I was 29 years old turning 30 and my whole world fell apart, everything I had known and trusted was gone. I needed a place to turn, a friend told me I should try blogging since Social Media was such an important part of my world already. This will be my last blog post on nikilee30. Waiting for disaster to strike now that I have spoken those words.

Single and not willing to settle. I do NOT jump on tattoo bandwagons. I would want something else rather than a tattoo thousands of people already have. These are all so boring. Because nothing pays for the drugs for mental illness like tattoos. Founded in 2013, Project Semicolon. Supporters of this cause, getting tattooed with .

I had no idea what the heck PCOS was.

You know sometimes I find it a bit depressing, the way in which all of this has to be medicalized for us.

Anyway, moving right along.

The best of 2014 is yet to come! 40 year old mom of a toddler.

Nothing worth having ever comes easy. Life with our miracle 3. Soon to be one year old! March 25, 2015.

Black, Single, and Seeking Motherhood. There are people in my life who bring nothing to the table but bad news and negativity. This post, however, is dedicated to one person in particular. Today, I commit to cutting this person out of my life. I will cease all communication. I will work hard to stop the resentment, which is essentially this person living rent-free in my head.

Friday, September 16, 2016. Adjusting to Life as a Family of Five. We fit like a beautiful puzzle. he was riding independently in about an hour! Fun at the local playground. Our dear friend Carey made this delicious cake. Wisly loves him some BATMAN! We are.