My journey through marriage, affairs, divorce, being a Mom, sexual rebirth, online dating, failed relationships, and lots of sex. Habit forming, one small thing at a time. One of the keys to making lasting and positive changes in our lives is developing habits. One day at a time. Eating well is easier if we just get into the habit of making the right choice, day after day.

I turned 30 in October. I built it up in my mind as a really intense thing that was to happen to me, that suddenly I would not be young and fun in my twenties, but wiser and methodical in my thirties. Things were going badly, really badly, that week and it felt like my life was out of control. All I really wanted was to do something.

Just being me, in my world, sometimes boring, sometimes hilarious. Learning Not to Depend on Someone for Happiness. Especially when its for another human being. Inside your essence, down to your core, reaching the furthest patterns int.

The Way Bear Sees It. The Love of a Musician. Why do good feelings have to feel so good? August 15, 2015. Monday evening TC and I finally talked. Perhaps, Perhaps, Perhaps.

Dating Dramas Of A Thirty Something. I am affectionately referred to as Sensei by the likes of. For all the sexual wisdom I have imparted on them over the years. Would be the answer to my prayers. What can I expect? .

For Part 1, click here. You should understand me like I understand you. Now baby I know the difference between right and wrong.

Divorcing an Alcoholic or Addict. Tomorrow, I know, is going to be like any other day. No one will be giving me flowers like these.

My perspective on my wife suggesting an open marriage. I had to tell her that I love her more than anything else and I am not ok sharing her love, her mind, her body with someone else. I had to tell her that I want her and only her. Thanks for reading and I hope you enjoy whatever I throw out here next. I had two drinks .