Looking good you say? I wonder if there are any embodied ones out there who, at some time or another, have not struggled in some way with the aseathic of their body? How we look and how much we are valued is unhappily intertwined but perhaps we could use that relationship in a more positive and helpful way? Or not as the case may be. It is possible to accept the reality that our bodies and our value are intertwined without swallowing the lies that suggest our value is based upon an embodied utopia, the s.